Join me in the discovery of our purpose in life!!! ^_^

Find your answer to Life’s Most Important Questions
- What is the meaning of life?

- What on earth am I here for?

- You are not an accident!

- You were created by God for five purposes, and until you understand them, life will not make sense.

Over 10,000 churches around the world have participated in a spiritual journey of discovery called 40 Days of Purpose. This is an opportunity for you to take this journey with many like-minded people who are also seeking answers to the same question. Over the course of 40 Days, we will explore God’s amazing plan for you – both here and now, and for eternity. Knowing God’s purpose for creating you will reduce your stress, focus your energy, simplify your decisions, give new meaning to your life, and most importantly, prepare you for eternity.

Beginning on 5 Aug 07 at Charis Methodist Church and in a home near you!

You are invited to enjoy this important series in a comfortable setting near your home. Each of the six weekly video lessons are developed by Pastor Rick Warren. By participating in a 40 Days of Purpose group, you will be taken through a personal study of the book “Purpose Driven Life” by Pastor Warren.We invite you to join us – there is no cost (except to purchase the 40 Days of Purpose book at a highly subsidized rate) or commitment to join a church. All are welcome. Discover God’s purpose for you! Join us for 40 Days of Purpose:

e-mail: 40DOP@charismc.org.sg

or call 63445750 for info

or visit us at:

Charis Methodist Church

91 Koon Seng Road, Singapore 427032

or juz call me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^_^

HURRAY!!!!!~~~

can u believe it??? ITS FRIDAY ONCE AGAIN!!!!!

im so hapi dat i cant hold back my joy n wana share it wif all of u!!!!! lets hold hands n dance in a circle n shout for joy!!!!!!!!

*dancing arnd*

ok so u all pai sei la... nmind i dance myself... =))) *continues dancing*

u noe when i was back in intel, everydae was like a friday so i didnt appreciate fridays dat much... neither did i haf pre-monday blues... but now... on thurs i start lookin forward to fri n on fri i get into a ord mood n cant wait fer 6pm to come... then its all uphill fer me till sun afternoon then i get quite sad but keep tellin myself dat IM WKIN FER GOD NOT FER MAN N ITS MY PRIVILEGE TO SERVE HIM IN E WORKPLACE (muz write so big cos its somethin we wkin pple need to remind ourselves else we get caught up in e spiral downwards in e workplace) then try to walk wif not so heavy footsteps to wk on mon... kekeke...

anywae to u all... ENJOY E WEEKEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^_^

so amusing...

muz b thinkin how come i put this rite... hahaha... wanted to post this pic longgg ago when joyce did this fer us... she entitled it 'whos who' heh...

story abt joyce n me is quite amusing... norman is my uni fren n there was once he told me if italy loses e world cup (or somethin along those lines), he would come to church. so it reali came true la so he had to come to church... then he said dat he wana introduce his fren to me, someone he knew via his wk... n he said dat we looked alike n we both like to ask him to church... so dats how i knew joyce... one dae over msn... =)))

so we became beta frens n finally we met fer e first time when norman came to charis hahaha... then one dae joyce was free n i was home, cant rem y... so she came over fer lunch n we looked thro some fotos of mine cos i was quite shocked dat we looked alike especially in some of her wedding pics (some angles we reali look alike)... then when she saw some of my pics she was quite convinced n asked me to send her those pics so she could show her husband, francis... =Pp

dat nite she sent me e above pic... comparison of e both of us hahaha... now e below pic was taken last nite wif joyce n her sis, grace... kekeke... cedric did this up fer us n entitled it 'sistas' hahaha...

u noe wats funny? when joyce came to charis e previous sun, most pple came to me n asked if she's my sister... then my parents happened to c her n they aso v amused by e similarity between us... n my dad who usually is e Mr. Cool, asked my mum abt where joyce stays, wat does she do, etc... kekeke...

hmmm my fringe is too long... ya la jon n lilian u r rite... i used to look v saye wif my hair maintained every 1 - 2 mths... my hair looks terrible now... save money la... dun wana trim so often so forsake beauty fer awhile... *sigh* todae i changed my hairstyle to haf a side parting... then my mum declared dat i look older wif my fringe combed to one side... *double sigh* okok one dae i'll look georgeous again!!!!! ^_^

life... rships... love...

ponderin abt somethin these daes... my fren juz got attached n we r all v hapi fer him. juz dat she is much younger than him. u noe, to b wif someone who's so much older than me who is still takin care of his in-law, who has a children... its reali tough... i admire her love fer him n her maturity cos its reali not ez... she will b marryin into a family wif no privacy... for me, i value e first few years of my marriage. its best dat e couple can stay alone fer a few yrs to build up our rship as one, to set up our family rules, to get used to each other, etc... fer her, once she marries in, she become a mother n has 2 in-laws...

many times, we look at pple n we think 'wa y lidat one this couple? so weird match...' n i m sori to sae dat im guilty of dat too. but come to think abt it... they each haf a story to tell. to b able to get together in this rship is a big test of their love n they haf come together despite all odds... so onli thing we can do is support em n not look at all e flaws in e rship but wish e best fer em... even our own rships haf flaws, y focus on other pple's?

ultimately, as long as u r truly hapi, dats wats most impt to me...

im a material girl in a material world~~~

nice??? its a gucci bag - leather!!!!! was thinkin between this one or e LV one... but e LV neverfull bag dat i like is canvas n not leather... =~~( was tryin to d/l e pic to show u all but LV v smart, all flash player so no pics to save... so u all need to go to LV website to take a look fer urselves!!!!!

u all muz b thinkin... who is this imposter bloggin on vin n jean's blog... ITS MEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!! i shock myself as well, dun wori... when i told joy/yong/rita i wana buy branded bag, they all flipped as well... e jean dat scrimps n saves n frowns upon excessive spendin is considerin buyin a branded bag??????!!!!!!!!

*sigh* ya loh its true leh... cos im irritated by buyin a new 30-50 bucks bag every year or so cos e one dat i carry every dae has spoilt... feel like juz gettin 1 gd leather bag dat wun spoil fer e next 10-20 years!!!!! u noe e famous zui kuey bag??? e mango bag vin bought me fer my bdae??? spoil liao... onli 6 mths old... *sadded* dats y i suddenly decided on sat mornin dat i wana get a GOOD LEATHER BAG!!!!!!!!!!

so vin n me spent 3 hours on sat afternoon from 4-7pm walkin from paragon to look for branded bags to tangs to look for mid range bags dats can hopefully fit e bill... to endin up at far east in desperate hope dat we can end up wif a gd deal... finally we dragged ourselves to dfs n walked into almost all e branded bags boutiques but still couldnt find a nice leather bag...

so... ya loh... still duno wat to get yet... any suggestions??? =))))))

another thing... VIN N ME R TOGETHER FER 2 YEARS N 2 DAES TODAE!!!!!!!! ^_^

hmmm there's reali somethin wrong wif my home pc... cant click on e title bar to type a title... so for e first time, we will haf no title on this post... juz as well, dun wan pple to rem this post a few mths later n click on it to verify certain things cos... im gona tok abt my current company...

u noe i keep wonderin to myself... is it e norm to haf almost 90% of e pple u tok to in e company (except fer e high flyin mgmt) tell u they wana leave e company??? hmmm even in deloitte where e turnover is extremely high, i dun haf even 10% of e pple i noe in e company tell me they wana leave within onli 2 mths of my joinin...?!

strange hor... ok in case u sae, of cos i dun haf so many pple tellin me dat since when im onli 2 mths into deloitte, more than 80% of e pple i noe r pple who aso newly joined like me... ok fine... so i cant keep e 2 mth thing constant... then lemme prove my point stronger by tokin abt when im 2 yrs into deloitte... where most pple start to wana leave... by then, there is AT MOST 70% who sae they wana leave... n excuse me, deloitte definitely has more than 10 times e number of pple in my company... n if e no of pple in my pple is so small n i tok to more than 50% of em n almost 90% wana leave... then how?????!!!!!

ok maybe its all tok no action... but merely tok itself is demoralising itself la!!!!! where got company lidat one????? can u all advice me or not????? izit e norm????? if its e norm then i wun feel so lost leh... if its not e norm then theres somethin extremely wrong here n i beta make full use of my 2 weeks notice b4 it turns into a 3 mth notice!!!!!

anywaez noticed e tag board is gettin quiet, so U ALL PPLE OUT THERE WHO R SO V MUCH CONCERNED ABT ME... TELL MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE IZIT E NORM??????????????????????????????? hee... =P like so forcin u hor... HAHAHAHA i like... =)

ok i got a special request to mention someone so i came back into blogspot to edit my post... this paragrapah is especially dedicated to this lady whom many pple sae look like precious moments... (all u guys startin to drool rite??? hahahahahaha... tell me if u wana meet her then i can fix up a date fer u!!!!!!!! she is single n v available n a SUPER GD CATCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!) she lurvesssssssss pink n precious moments n all things cute... so u all can get readi ur 'jian mian li'... in case e lady herself duno wat is jian mian li, its a gift u give to someone when u meet e person fer e first time... heh heh... im sure all of our mutual frens will noe who im tokin abt... so enjoy ur 5min of fame my dearie!!!!!!!!! kekekeke... =)))))))))))))))))))

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my sec sch n jc fren juz left us... he took his life last week... duno if he left on thurs nite or fri morn but he was discovered on fri afternoon... if e person who saw him on fri morn reported earlier, would he haf been saved? nobody noes...

durin worship in church yesterdae i was so overwhelmed by grief... his parents, his frens, his fans, his students... all of em muz b in great pain now... to think dat such a hapi guy would in a blink of an eye juz disappear from e face of e earth juz lidat... one dae he is still arnd, now he is no longer...

sori to those who r hurtin n haf to b reminded of e pain when u read this... we hurt together n we need to pull thro this together...

actually i haven been in touch wif him since jc... maybe onli once or twice i toked to him from then till now... but my main memories of him r all of e past... his singing, his smiles, his innocence, his goofiness... they would all b buried in our hearts now...

wat xm said is true, wat is more sad is y he chose to take this path... could no one haf helped to advice him otherwise? i think wat is most painful is fer those who knew he was strugglin n yet didnt take dat extra step to ensure that he is ok...

thro this i learnt dat i need to b more concerned abt those arnd me... n not live juz fer my convenience... even if im extremely tired, i shd still go n b there fer my frens who need me... cos God will give me e increase n capacity fer my physical health to b ok... fer u never noe wat dat comforting hug or reassurin pat on his/her shoulder can do to e person...

fer those who r feelin depressed cos of some circumstance in ur life, hey, theres nothin too great dat God cant help u wif... n theres nothin dat can cause u to take ur life ok? u definitely haf frens arnd n pple who love n care fer u... at e very least, there is me... n at e very most, there is alwayz God whom u can turn to... let's not do anythin silly such dat e next mornin i wake up, i open my eyes to a world wif one less fren...

he was a great guy... full of smiles n touched many lives... he's like a spark dat burned brightly fer dat period of time dat he was arnd... he will alwayz b in our hearts...

forgive me if im makin no sense, cos i aso duno wat to sae... do keep his family n close ones in prayer...