life... rships... love...

ponderin abt somethin these daes... my fren juz got attached n we r all v hapi fer him. juz dat she is much younger than him. u noe, to b wif someone who's so much older than me who is still takin care of his in-law, who has a children... its reali tough... i admire her love fer him n her maturity cos its reali not ez... she will b marryin into a family wif no privacy... for me, i value e first few years of my marriage. its best dat e couple can stay alone fer a few yrs to build up our rship as one, to set up our family rules, to get used to each other, etc... fer her, once she marries in, she become a mother n has 2 in-laws...

many times, we look at pple n we think 'wa y lidat one this couple? so weird match...' n i m sori to sae dat im guilty of dat too. but come to think abt it... they each haf a story to tell. to b able to get together in this rship is a big test of their love n they haf come together despite all odds... so onli thing we can do is support em n not look at all e flaws in e rship but wish e best fer em... even our own rships haf flaws, y focus on other pple's?

ultimately, as long as u r truly hapi, dats wats most impt to me...