standstill

now things are paused. actually this weekend vin and i realised we have alot of things to do... confirm the caterer, think of church decoration, check out wedding invites, decide on honeymoon destination, talk to pastor about order of service, talk to josh/jordan about wedding montage, etc... all these things piled up cos partly we were preoccupied with home hunting and also cos we were slightly lazy hahaha...

but now everything has come to a grinding halt cos suddenly we don't know how many people can be seated in our church sanctuary!!!!! all along i thought that we could sit 500 pax but over the weekend, our church manager told my coordinator that it can only sit 420 people at most... when i heard that, everything froze for that few minutes...

i already tentatively booked my caterer based on 500 pax... if i reduce, think they will flip... also, vin and i would need to reduce our guest list by 100??? oh gosh... we already wanted to invite almost 700 people, now we need to even further cut our list???

these are the biggest 2 things that we need to accomplish and yet we are stuck. at least only for 1 week cos this sunday we are meeting our church manager to discuss again. we so want to invite our friends and relatives to join in our celebration of love, so really really really hope that the church can sit 500 guests!!!!!

also, all thanks to gloria's timely reminder, we need to book a tentage... and it is estimated to be about $400!!! another addition to our already long expense list... holding a wedding is really quite scary if no proper financial planning and mental preparation is done prior to the proposal and preparation stage... but we trust that God will provide our every need!!!!! yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah!!!!!

just 4 months plus to our wedding!!!!! it is sooooo exciting for vin and me... thanks for sharing our joy and excitement... so glad to have you all with us ^_^

going for a hair trim tonight... looking forward to it!!! =)))