Monday, December 31, 2007

pre-wedding photographer booked!!!!!

we r sooo hapi... or rather maybe im e more excited one... hahaha... u noe how much i love fotos... n when wenhui was shoppin fer her pre-wedding fotographer, i alreadi liked montage studios alot then n now dat we managed to get eng howe to do our pre-wedding shots, im like over e moon la!!!!! =)))

eng howe's style is more of capturin e characters of e couple. not those arty posey kind which i think vin n i not v into la... n i think if we do those pose here n there pics, u all sure burst out laughin one when u c our pics rite... even though i noe we will look superbly gd loh... HAHAHAHA... too bad la, its my blog so i will shamelessly b thick-skinned here hee hee... =Pp

i realised wedding is one huge project wif many activities inter-twined. cos e studio needs to noe e itnery for e dae, which can onli b planned after noein how many pple comin fer e tea ceremony. then itinery aso needs to noe if e make up artist can re-do my hair b4 e church wedding. then e pre-wedding fotographer needs to noe when e studio can complete my gowns to fix e foto shoot date n e weddin band shop aso need to noe e foto shoot date, n so on n so forth... sounds v complicated hor? but oh well, we juz do one thing a time n dun get too bogged up by e ten thousand things ba...

next up is to book our actual dae fotographer!!!!! we haf quite a few in mind but still not sure which one to choose... can u believe it? our original budget was 3.8k fer this but now its onli 2.5k cos of e many things we learnt dat we need to incorporate into our budget... things like church wedding programmes, men's shirt/tie, couple's shoes, etc... there r sooo many costs to a wedding!!!!! n in e past, i tot gettin married was some easy peasy thing... juz book e studio, fotographer, location then ok finish... but no loh... theres sooo much details dat we need to settle!!!

dun wori, vin n me r enjoyin this whole process... even though there r times when we haf disagreements n we need to manage our families n relatives opinions n ideas fer our wedding, we still find joy in all of this. truly e marriage preparation process is a time when e couple wil grow closer n learn to think fer each other more n b of one mind, learnin how to b prepared to think as one in time to come... so hor, i strongly recommend those who r thinkin of gettin married to go fer marriage preparation course first!!!!! our pmc reali helped us understand ourselves n each other more n wat is in it fer us when we wan to come together as one. many pple think its juz some formality dat a couple has to go thro if u r christian. pple think dat everyone noes wat consists of a marriage - juz love n bear wif each other loh!!! but its far more... we need to noe each others strengths n weaknesses n likes n dislikes, n much more... n pmc can help to uncover all these things abt urself n ur partner dat u never knew... n after e pmc, when u truly noe each other n ur own characteristics more n still r prepared to take e next step to marriage, then it will definitely help loads durin e next phase of ur life... =)))

vin is now researchin on honeymoon destinations... yes yes after so many pple haf asked us abt our honeymoon fer e past 2 mths, we r finally startin to think abt it!!! so if u haf any suggestions, do let us noe!!!!! we r thinkin between banyan tree or club med, or if u noe of any wonderful beach resorts, tell us k!!!!! ^_^