marriage

marriage is abt 2 families. its not abt 2 pple. oh i beg ur pardon, lemme b more precise... its abt 2 families (inclusive of e extended families)...

EVERYONE JUZ WANS A SAE IN E WEDDING!!!!!

actually i shd haf seen it comin cos previously when vin n i were thinkin abt housin when we get married, everyone n anyone u can possibly think of in our extended families juz wanted to haf a sae in our lives. not dat we r closed to opinions but its reali tirin when there r so many pple who wanna try to influence our decision n wana make us think e wae they r thinkin... note dat these pple dun reali care abt us in our daily lives, but once we r makin a major decision in life, they think they haf all e rite to influence our decisions in our new family...

strange rite pple? juz wana haf a sae...

maybe cos they r bored???!!!

actually all humans r lidat. else y would we gossip? cos we haf a mindset. a wae of thinkin - which we think is e most perfect, which everyone shd adhere to, else those pple who dun do things our wae r either immoral, haf no sense of humanity, r doin somethin dats unfair/unjust etc... if we juz accept pple e wae they r, or juz respect pple's views n try to understand where they r comin from, instead of sayin 'if i were u, i would do this this this this this...'

but r we of e same financial status? r we of e same family background? r we of e same family make up? n so on n so forth... we all haf had different life experiences n different waes of family upbringin... so y force pple to accept ur views rite? unless of cos u haf e authority to speak into a person's life n e person is doin somethin dats against God, somethin damagin to e person/e pple arnd em etc...

anywae i digressed. supposed to tok abt wedding. ya so anywae in e end, where do u draw e line? how much will u bend ur back to satisfy ur family members? or izit abt whose voice is louder?

ultimately vin n i decided we cant satisfy e whole world. we will do wat we can n other than dat, we will b firm n stand by our decisions. else if he keeps satisfyin my family time n time again, which results in inconvenience fer us, then he would feel tired one dae. n vice versa. ultimately, as long as we do wat is rite in God's eyes n alwayz walk in His direction n seek His will n draw from His wisdom, it will b great!!! =)))

so yeah!!!!! lookin forward to our marriage n thanks fer bein excited fer us too!!!!! oh oh oh!!!!! found another helper!!!!! so hapi leh God is so good... His blessings overflow!!!!! ivy is helpin us do e ring pillow!!!!! ^_^ ivy is super creative n loves to do those intricate handicrafts wif beads n crystals etc... so its sure gona b v wow wow one =)))))